Musings

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  • Some people mean well, they really do.  They just don't know.  Know what to say or do.  Last night, a friend of ours asked why we didn't decorate outside.  When we said we just weren't into it, he made a comment that it will help to get back into the swing of things.  Totally innocent comment, and meant well.  It's just not that easy.  As we drove away, taking the boys to look at Christmas lights around the neighborhood, my wife commented that he doesn't know what it's like.  I told her, of course he didn't, and hopefully he never will.

  •  Cub Scouts is a commitment.  A commitment to the pack, to the community, and to your fellow scouts.  I understand that there are things that come up.  Family events, emergencies.  Why, though, overbook your child so to speak.  The scouts can be enriching and rewarding.  It teaches teamwork and camaraderie.  However, you can't reap the benefits when you sign them up for everything under the sun.  Try teaching your kids about promises, dedication, and accountability, and responsibility.

  • Why is the answer always sell more?  Sales are down, the economy is struggling.  The corporate answer?  Sell more chips.  I would love to sell more, it makes me more money in the short term.  Long term, they are going to come right off that shelf outdated and into the garbage can.  The answer isn't simple, even if they try to make it sound so.



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